During the dating process many of us have taken pride in saying "I would never to that," however when faced with the position of separation or divorce our attitudes are quickly changed. In some cases, it is the very thing that we have condemned others for doing in the past; that we find ourselves doing. I have heard many people say "that hell has no fiery like a woman scorn." I beg the difference, I don't think that a situation, no matter how ugly it may get, has the power to turn a good person into a bad one. I feel that the properties of meanness have to be present already.
Looking at the bible we can see an example that supports my position;
Looking at the bible we can see an example that supports my position;
The bible (starting in the book of Exodus chapter 5) documents the story of Moses being sent to Pharaoh with a demand from the Lord, to let God's people go. The Pharaoh refused to comply, however the bible states that God hardened his heart before Moses approached him. Yes, God hardened Pharaoh's heart so that he could bring horrible plagues upon innocent people... WRONG!!
The bible does state that GOD hardened Pharaoh's heart however it does not say anywhere that God made him disobey. I believe that in order for God to be able to harden the heart of the ruler. This leader's character (heart) must have already had the properties present to be harden. Simply said, if your ex-spouse of ex-wife or husband states that the divorce made them evil, they are lying to you. The evilness was already there. The divorce was just the catalyst that allowed what was already there to surface.
Let's hear your story!!! In what why did that lovable person you were so in love with change after it was over? (Comment below)
The bible does state that GOD hardened Pharaoh's heart however it does not say anywhere that God made him disobey. I believe that in order for God to be able to harden the heart of the ruler. This leader's character (heart) must have already had the properties present to be harden. Simply said, if your ex-spouse of ex-wife or husband states that the divorce made them evil, they are lying to you. The evilness was already there. The divorce was just the catalyst that allowed what was already there to surface.
Let's hear your story!!! In what why did that lovable person you were so in love with change after it was over? (Comment below)
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